If you find her in a field of summer's gold Put a flower in her hair And if you whisper soft your secrets never told You will know that I've been there And if you're holding her upon a winter's eve And there's a chill that bites the air And if you swear upon a kiss you'll never leave You will know that I've been there And if you follow her down to a melting stream And your reflection shows a pair And if you wait and you find her sweeter than a dream You will know that I've been there And if you make for her a blanket in the fall Or weave a scarf that she can wear And if she sings to you a song you can't recall You will know that I've been there And if your heart is not content to watch the rain Safe inside a pillow's chair And if you long for love but you somehow fell for pain You will know that I've been there And if you sail off and you promise to return Across the ocean you will stare And if you stay away too long and then get burned You will know that I've been there And if you write to her a letter stained with wine Missing times you'll never share And if you find a tear and you think it might be mine You will know that I've been there And if you're staring out your windowsill tonight And you've been looking everywhere Knowing you made wrong what certainly was right You will know that I've been there And if you see someone who's singing sad and true And you ask how he does fare And if he tells you 'bout a lady he once knew You will know that I've been there And if you find her in a field of summer's gold Put a flower in her hair